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May
26
    
Filed Under (occasions) by Flash on 26-05-2008

My planned schedule of alternating blog posts with editing and posting some Mexico pictures was somewhat sidetracked, but in a good way. My niece Angela Nickel married Chris Fielding on May 5th at the Bethel Mennonite Church in Langley, followed by a reception at the Matsqui Community Hall here in Abbotsford. You may remember that we attended their engagement party last year. Rudy, the bride’s father and Karin’s brother, lives a few blocks away from us and so we heard numerous updates in the wedding planning. I knew that they had hired a known and expensive photographer, but just before the wedding they found out the price did not include his presence at the reception! They asked that I bring along my full camera gear, but stressed that I was there as a guest and to not devote all my time to taking pictures.

The wedding was a nice ceremony that lasted just the right amount of time, something very important if you want your guests to remember it as a good experience. Karin had convinced me that I should leave my camera in the car for the church portion, only for us to find out that everyone else had their cameras and the pastor started with an announcement that they were welcome, but you were asked to remain seated. That did not bother me too much, as they had the professional photographer; but I was not to sure after I watched him for a bit. To begin with, I was a little surprised that someone that works weddings every week would show up in just dress pants and a t-shirt, but I was even more horrified to notice that he spent most of his time taking pictures from a distance, and rarely got in close. He had a decent zoom on his camera, but you do need some variety!  We had sat in the back at the end of the pew, so that we were right at the door that each of the bridal party and then the bride herself entered, and I would have loved to grab some shots there.

After the ceremony we killed some time at Waltrude’s house while the wedding party went to Mill Lake Park to take pictures, and then we headed to the reception. When Karin and I were married, location had been a worry as there are not many nice halls in the Abbotsford region. Matsqui Hall was too big for our wedding, but is the best one in the area for a sizable crowd. The only issue was that I was probably one of the few people that knew where it was located, so I found myself giving a few people directions.

Once I got to the hall, the bride’s mother Gisela looked especially relieved that I had brought all of my equipment, explaining that she had broken her own camera two days before the wedding and imploring me to be sure to take pictures of every table as there were many guests from her family that came in from far places such as Ontario. I therefore snapped even more pictures than I had planned to take, and editing them took a while (quite a few got a “good enough” grade, and would not be pictures I would usually show). I finished them yesterday, and then started them posting to our Flickr account as I went to bed last night. The upload took until 1:00 this afternoon, but they are finally all up. I’m also pleased that I learned a few things about the various software I was using that I will be able to apply to the Mexico pictures.

If you were there or are just curious, and want to look at them all, you can see the set. Alternatively, you can view a slideshow or see them all on black. For the ultimate experience, I recommend PicLens, but I’ll save explaining it for another post.

Realizing that many of you probably don’t want to sort through well over 100 photos of people that you don’t know, here are some of the ones I would have posted had I been restricting myself.  As always, clicking on them takes you to the original on Flickr, where you can view the full sized version.

Cake Toppers

Wedding Cake

Flowers

Parents of the Bride

Karin and Angela

Wedding - Chris and Angela-49 edit

Paternal Grandparents

Oma and Opa

Wedding - Chris and Angela-102 edit

First Dance

Karin, Cynthia and Waltrude

Aunts

The Rings

Show on map

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Sep
10
    
Filed Under (Karin, occasions, outings, ramblings, restaurant) by Flash on 10-09-2007

On Friday, Karin and I celebrated our 5th anniversary.  I had planned to write a post in honour of both the occasion and my gorgeous bride, but real life did not allow it thanks to time pressures last week.  I did start one in which I wanted to talk about all the ways Karin is special to me; but I just kept coming back to one thought…

One of my greatest friends had dated the same girl for almost eight years, with the three of us even backpacking Europe together; but after she decided to move on he was suddenly overrun by women who had been admiring him from afar until then.  One day he told me that he had met a girl that planned to go to Ireland in a month just as he was planning, and so they decided to go together.  When he got back, he told me they were engaged.  When I asked how you could date someone for years without proposing and then suddenly choose one girl that he hadn’t dated any longer than other recent pairings he had made, told me that, “When you meet the right one, you just know”.  I didn’t take him seriously at the time, as I had already been in love but had never felt anything like that; but then when I met Karin I “just knew”.  I have been happy ever since, and even years later I smile often whenever I think about that special feeling she invokes in me just as strongly now as back then.

Karin and I will be returning to Playa del Carmen, Mexico for our fifth anniversary, delaying our trip until after hurricane season just as we delayed our honeymoon there.  While many people take vacations regularly, our budget does not allow it and so we began saving for this trip years ago.  We will not be spending an extraordinary amount on the trip itself, but we have also budgeted for a number of new items to take along, most of which I will talk about soon.  Knowing that we have had this planned for a long time, we did not get anniversary presents for each other, and I had told Karin not to buy me a birthday present last month.  Karin’s birthday will be in Mexico.

So what did we do to actually mark the occasion?  We were together.  This might not seem like much, as we do most things together; but I made sure to leave the homework alone and stayed away from blogging so that I could pay even more attention to the most important person in my life.  I came home early from work on Friday and we went to the bluStone restaurant for dinner.  We spent the rest of the weekend just “hanging out”, for if you truly with your perfect match then you will never tire of being with the one you love even if you are not doing anything.



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